top of page

Blog
Don’t miss out on our latest updates
Search


What You Permit, You Promote: Executive Silence Shapes Organizational Culture
The most expensive leadership decisions are rarely the ones executives make. They are the ones they avoid.
When dismissive behavior, tension, or poor dynamics go unaddressed, teams do not stay neutral. They adapt. They adjust. And over time, culture shifts in ways leadership never intended.
Because in every organization, what is permitted becomes the standard.
Mar 304 min read


6 Ways Authenticity May Be Holding Back Emerging Leaders
What if the advice to “just be yourself” is actually holding you back?
Many emerging leaders lean on authenticity, not realizing it can come across as underprepared, unfocused, or unpolished.
Here are six ways it shows up and what to do instead.
Mar 236 min read


Receiving Contradictory Feedback: A Communication Coach's Perspective
One of the most destabilizing moments at work is receiving feedback that contradicts itself.
One person says you need to be more direct.
Another says you come across too strongly.
It is easy to assume something is wrong.
But contradictory feedback often means something else: you are operating in a complex environment where different people value different communication styles.
Strong leaders learn how to interpret that feedback without losing confidence or clarity.
Mar 93 min read


Inspirational Leadership Can Happen in the Smallest of Moments
Inspirational leadership is not always a keynote moment.
More often, it shows up in the small, everyday choices that shape how people feel and what they believe is possible.
In our latest tip sheet, we share eight real examples of inspirational leadership drawn from leaders inside Speak by Design University.
You will see leaders who:
➤ Make hard work feel lighter
➤ Create inclusion in real time
➤ Name fear and still move people forward
Plus more.
Feb 65 min read


Right Level of Detail for the Right Audience
Three minutes into an update, a senior leader asks, “How will this work?”
Most leaders hear a request for detail. It isn’t.
It’s a test of judgment and whether you’re operating at the right level of detail for the room.
Before you walk into your next meeting, pressure-test your update through a senior lens.
If you had only two minutes, could you explain the value creation clearly and confidently?
This post will help.
Feb 23 min read


The Elegant "I": How to Share Your Contributions Without Hogging the Spotlight
Visibility isn’t vanity. It’s stewardship.
The more senior you become, the more important it is to articulate your impact because it affects resources, trust, advancement, and the opportunities you’re trusted with next.
So let’s retire the false choice between humble and confident.
You can be both.
You can say “we” with generosity and “I” with clarity.
And when you choreograph credit well, you don’t detract from the team. You elevate the team, while finally letting your l
Jan 296 min read


From Expert to Change Maker: How Your Words Position You in Meetings
Ideas aren’t scarce anymore. Follow-through is.
In meetings, leaders aren’t positioned by their title. They’re positioned by their language.
In this week’s post, Stephanie breaks down the difference between Change Agents and Change Makers, and shows how small language shifts signal whether you own adoption or outcomes in the room.
If you want your words to move work forward, not just sound smart, this one is worth your time.
Read the post →
Jan 193 min read


Your Ideal Onboarding Plan: How to Lead with Confidence in a New Role
Starting a new position should feel exciting, but for many leaders, it comes with quiet pressure. You want to make a strong impression, build trust quickly, and show the organization they made the right choice, all while navigating expectations you’re still discovering.
Your Ideal Onboarding Plan breaks down the communication moves that make those early days easier. Here’s a 30–60–90 day framework to keep you focused and confident in your new role.
Nov 19, 20254 min read


Increasing Conflict Tolerance: Why Great Leaders Invite Tough Conversations
“I just don’t want this meeting to blow up,” a senior executive once told me.
Most leaders try to avoid conflict. The great ones learn to expect it, and even invite it.
Avoiding discomfort might feel safe but it costs you credibility, creativity, and connection.
In this blog post, we explore how to reframe those tense moments as important conversations that move relationships and results forward.
Oct 31, 20253 min read


Creative Communications Skills Every Professional should MASTER for Career Growth
What are the Communications Skills Every Professional should MASTER for Career Growth? To stand out, you must learn to communicate in a way that inspires action, sparks emotion, and creates lasting impact. Creativity is the answer.
Sep 29, 20252 min read


How Creative Communications Transform Workplace Culture and Team Performance
Every team develops a tone over time. It’s shaped by what gets celebrated, how meetings feel, and how people respond when things go wrong.
That tone is culture.
And communication is what shapes it. Every single day.
You need Creative Communications.
Sep 24, 20252 min read


How to Become a Trusted Advisor Without A Title
As a mid-level executive leading major client projects, you’re often joined by more senior colleagues. And despite owning the strategy and execution, it’s easy to feel overshadowed by their titles.
How do you shift your mindset and your presence to become a trusted advisor?
Jul 8, 20251 min read


The Inner Critic vs. The Inner Coach: Who Shows Up When You Step Up?
In high-stakes moments, your inner critic whispers doubt “Don’t mess this up.” But your inner coach is there too, reminding you: “You’ve prepared. You belong. Lead with clarity.”
Jun 26, 20252 min read


Sharpen & Elevate: Step Into Your Next Level of Leadership
July 9, 2025 | Birmingham, MI with Stephanie Bickel At Speak by Design, we believe leadership communication is a skillset that’s always evolving, because leadership itself is never static. That’s why we created Sharpen & Elevate : a one-day intensive experience designed to help leaders break through their current limits and rise to the next level of clarity, presence, and influence. This isn’t a lecture, nor a seminar. It’s an interactive workshop. On July 9th in Detroit , we
May 20, 20252 min read


7 Interviewing Tips for How to Talk Compensation
How to Talk Compensation: It seems innocent enough. But answering it too early can limit your options, diminish your leverage, or anchor you too low.
May 16, 20253 min read


Reclaiming Your Momentum: How to Turn Communication Into Your Catalyst for Career Growth
Many high performers hit this invisible ceiling. The problem is It’s perception. Elevating your leadership presence.
Apr 2, 20253 min read


Leadership Communication #49: Coach Others
Coaching Others it’s about inspiring their growth, and giving clear guidance when it matters most.
Dec 16, 20243 min read


Leadership Communication #48: Coach Yourself
Coach Yourself: Being your own coach is about stepping into your own shoes with clarity, humility, and the drive to keep improving.
Dec 8, 20242 min read


Leadership Communication #36: How to Create a Fresh Start
It's easy to dwell on past mistakes, but the key to growth is realizing that every day is a new opportunity for a fresh start.
Sep 16, 20243 min read


Leadership Communication #4: Build Your Personal Brand
The importance of a personal brand lies in its ability to distinguish and promote an individual's unique identity, skills, and reputation.
Feb 5, 20241 min read
bottom of page

